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South Carolina Divorce 101

Divorce is a difficult decision for anyone, whether it's you or your partner who initiates it. It's a painful experience that can leave you feeling shattered and alone in the dark. When you made your wedding vows, you did so with the intention of being together for life. You invested a lot of time and money into your wedding, inviting friends and family from all over South Carolina to share in your joy.

Now, you're faced with the harsh reality that you and your former spouse are no longer together. As your family law attorney in Glendale, SC, we understand how overwhelming this can be. We've assisted many clients through the divorce process and had the knowledge and tools to help them work through it and move on to greener pastures.

The CDH Law Firm Approach to Child Custody in South Carolina

Did you know that the U.S. Census Bureau states that 25% of children younger than 21 live with just one parent while the other parent resides elsewhere in the country? In such circumstances, many families must navigate the complicated and legally complex process of child custody. As seasoned family law attorneys, we have represented clients in all aspects and legal stages of child custody and support.

We focus in providing services for a range of issues, including but not limited to:

  • Drafting Reasonable Proposed Parenting Plans
  • Preparing Child Support Calculations
  • Communication with a Guardian ad Litem (if applicable)
  • Securing De Facto Custodian / Psychological Parent Rights
  • Negotiating Agreements Relating to Child Custody
  • Prosecuting Claims Related to Domestic Violence
  • Prosecuting and Defending Claims for
  • Adoption,
  • Termination of Parental Rights
  • Custody, and
  • Visitation
  • Defending Claims Alleging Abuse / Neglect by the Department of Social Services

Every family has its own distinct characteristics, and as such, child-related agreements must also be customized to fit each unique situation. In South Carolina, our team of skilled family law attorneys takes the time to understand our clients' individual goals and needs and tailor our services accordingly.

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South Carolina Alimony 101

When you get married, you go into the partnership believing that you'll be together forever. It makes sense, then, that most divorcing couples don't know very much about alimony in South Carolina (also referred to as spousal support). They ask questions such as:

  • Who gets alimony?
  • What is a reasonable amount of alimony?

Fortunately, working with a family law lawyer in Glendale, SC, can answer those questions and make alimony easier to understand and approach.

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What is Alimony in South Carolina?

Many individuals often mistake alimony for child support, but they are, in fact, two distinct forms of financial obligation and not mutually exclusive. Alimony was established to safeguard a supported spouse in the event of a divorce or separation. For example, a spouse who did not work during the course of the marriage would generally have a stronger alimony claim than a spouse who worked throughout the marriage. Likewise, a spouse who worked throughout the marriage but made less than the other spouse would have a stronger alimony claim than a spouse who worked and earned equivalent income to the supporting spouse.

In many cases, a spouse may choose to stay at home to tend to the children and manage the household. Oftentimes, the spouse who remains at home has sacrificed their career or education to care for the family. In such instances, a divorce could leave the financially weaker spouse in a state of financial turmoil. Without that support system, they will have to start over from scratch. These are some factors the Court will consider in evaluating an appropriate alimony case. Throughout your marriage, you have structured your quality of life based on a budget determined by your finances. While all expenses are shared by both partners, what happens if you have been financially dependent on your spouse and need to support yourself?

At Cobb, Dill, & Hammett, LLC, we aim to assist you in securing the alimony you need to support both yourself and your children. At the same time, we want to ensure that you are not overpaying your spouse, if you are the one required to pay. You may be required to pay an amount that could leave you in a difficult financial situation. Regardless, it's crucial to have the right legal representation to guide you through the alimony process in South Carolina.

The CDH Law Firm Approach to Alimonyin South Carolina

Some people may assume financial responsibilities to a former partner are end with the filing of a divorce decree. However, if the court has mandated alimony payments, then the financial obligations survive. Failure to meet those obligations can lead to serious legal and financial consequences. Family law attorneys at CHSA Law, LLC have years of experience representing clients throughout the divorce process, including alimony determinations.

Our legal services cover many aspects of alimony law, such as:

  • Negotiating Temporary and Final Alimony Payments
  • Modifying Alimony
  • Providing Advice on Reasonable Alimony
  • Filing to Collect Unpaid Alimony

Though our family law attorneys are fearless negotiators and litigators, we always strive to keep your legal proceedings as seamless and straightforward as possible. Our goal is to help reach an agreement on alimony that is reasonable for both you and your spouse. However, compromises aren't always possible. If needed, our lawyers will fight aggressively on your behalf to help ensure your financial rights are protected.

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International Education Week 2023

Featured Speaker: Zohara Kaye, Credit ESL2:30-3:30 pm PT, Student Center (SC 212) Zoom: glendale-edu.zoom.us/my/gccisoNo recording available. Each culture has its own cultural-specific sayings, such as “not my cup of tea” in English. These expressions give us a glimpse into the culture where they are embedded. We invite you to share a few casual idioms from your culture in th...

Featured Speaker: Zohara Kaye, Credit ESL

2:30-3:30 pm PT, Student Center (SC 212) Zoom: glendale-edu.zoom.us/my/gcciso

No recording available.

Each culture has its own cultural-specific sayings, such as “not my cup of tea” in English. These expressions give us a glimpse into the culture where they are embedded. We invite you to share a few casual idioms from your culture in this fun, interactive session! Globally-inspired snacks provided, sponsored by a generous Glendale College Foundation grant.

Featured Speakers: Dr. Ali Kobaissi, Evening Administrator; Nusha Shishegar, Senior Coordinator International Student Services (Verdugo Campus)

6:00-7:00 pm PT, Garfield Campus, MP 304 Zoom: glendale-edu.zoom.us/my/gcciso

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Have YOU heard of GCC’s Garfield campus? Did you know they offer a wide variety of academic and career counseling services, FREE English language and Business Education classes, and other useful services that may be helpful to current GCC domestic, immigrant, and international students and their families? We invite the community to learn about the life altering free programs and services GCC’s Garfield campus offers to immigrants and nonimmigrants alike! Staff from the Verdugo campus’ international student office will also provide information on becoming an international student at GCC. The presentation will be followed by a live Q & A session. Light appetizers, sponsored in part by a generous GCC Foundation grant, will be provided.

Tues. 11/14, 12:30 pm, International Festival

Organized by the International Student Club Follow them on Instagram @GCC_ISC

12:30-2:00 pm PT, Plaza Vaquero

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Please join us for the International Festival where we’ll celebrate International Education Week! Bring your appetite for cultural food, music, and cultural displays, raffles and prizes. Proceeds from food sales benefit international student scholarships.

Tues. 11/14, 3:30 pm, On the Menu Goes International: Exploring the Layers of Culture*

Featured Speakers: Sangita Dube & Maite Peterson, DEIA

3:30-4:30 pm PT, Sierra Vista 279 Zoom: glendale-edu.zoom.us/my/gcciso

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Join us for a DEIA-focused workshop based on Zaretta Hammond’s “cultural tree:” the surface (the leaves); the shallow culture (the trunk); and deep culture (the roots). This interactive conversation will revolve around how these levels connect and interact with each other. Globally-inspired snacks provided, sponsored by a generous Glendale College Foundation grant.

Wed. 11/15, 12:30 pm, The Truth About Study Abroad* - CANCELLED

12:30-1:30 pm PT, Student Center (SC 212) or Zoom: https://glendale-edu.zoom.us/my/gcciso

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A panel of former study abroad program participants and faculty will share the truth about these experiences. Upcoming programs will also be highlighted so you can start planning to apply for your favorite (it will be hard to choose!). Globally-inspired lunch provided, sponsored in part by a generous Glendale College Foundation grant.

Thurs. 11/16, 12:30 pm, "A Walk Around the Globe" TinyTalks*

Featured Speakers: Romy Griepp, Sociology & Social Sciences; Sarah McLemore, English Division Chair; Kofi Peprah, Geography

12:30-1:20 pm PST, Student Center (SC 212) or Zoom: glendale-edu.zoom.us/my/gcciso

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The “A Walk Around the Globe” TinyTalks will see members of the GCC community provide a presentation of up to 15-minutes in length on a topic of global nature. All topics in this mini-conference format will promote learning, build intrigue, and encourage conversations that matter. A globally-inspired lunch, sponsored by a generous Glendale College Foundation grant, will be provided.

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8 Abandoned Wonders Of South Carolina That Will Truly Captivate You

Are you an adventure seeker who enjoys exploring areas and places that have been abandoned? If this is you, take a look at the following abandoned places in South Carolina. As you’ll soon learn, each place is distinctly unique and captivating. Hence, some of these destinations give a poetic look into the past while some of these locations provide insight into the future. Are you the type to search “abandoned...

Are you an adventure seeker who enjoys exploring areas and places that have been abandoned? If this is you, take a look at the following abandoned places in South Carolina. As you’ll soon learn, each place is distinctly unique and captivating. Hence, some of these destinations give a poetic look into the past while some of these locations provide insight into the future. Are you the type to search “abandoned places near me?” If so, read on to learn about these abandoned places to visit when you’re in South Carolina.

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From a beautiful farmhouse abandoned by its family during the Great Depression to the former officers’ quarters at the old Charleston Navy Base, these eight abandoned wonders provide a haunting, yet beautiful glimpse of the history of our great state.

Have you seen any of these abandoned South Carolina sites in person? Feel free to let us know in the following comments section.

After visiting these 8 abandoned wonders in South Carolina, how about exploring other parts of the Palmetto State by taking this Natural Wonders Road Trip? Make sure to check out our ultimate road trip packing guide so you have everything you may need along the way.

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What are some abandoned places near me in South Carolina?

If you're in the mood for an adventure and wonder where there are some abandoned places near me, take a look at the following destinations.

Feel free to also take this South Carolina road trip for plenty of options of where to visit when you're looking for abandoned places near me.

What are some abandoned South Carolina ghost towns?

Take a look at the following abandoned South Carolina ghost towns before heading out on an adventure with your family.

Country Club Road improvements to connect Rail Trail to Glendale Shoals

bob.montgomery@shj.comPlans to improve the safety of a 3.3-mile stretch of Country Club Road and add multi-use walking and biking trails from the Mary Black Rail Trail to Glendale Shoals are moving forward, a state transportation official said Tuesday.“We’re excited to get this moving along,” said Penny Phillips, project manager for the S.C. Department of Transportation. “We look forward to developing operational improvements for motorists, as well as connection for cyclists and pedestrian...

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Plans to improve the safety of a 3.3-mile stretch of Country Club Road and add multi-use walking and biking trails from the Mary Black Rail Trail to Glendale Shoals are moving forward, a state transportation official said Tuesday.

“We’re excited to get this moving along,” said Penny Phillips, project manager for the S.C. Department of Transportation. “We look forward to developing operational improvements for motorists, as well as connection for cyclists and pedestrians between the existing Mary Black Rail Trail and Glendale Shoals.”

The $11.1 million project has been several years in the making. In 2015, the Spartanburg Area Transportation Study planning group announced that it was using public input to create engineering plans. In February 2016, a corridor study was completed.

The project seeks to improve dangerous intersections, eliminate narrow travel lanes and address a lack of shoulders, eliminate steep ditches and provide transportation for bicyclists and pedestrians offset from the roadway.

The road connects Union Street and South Pine Street in Spartanburg to Glendale Shoals, a 13-acre preserve along Lawson’s Fork Creek with waterfalls, a meadow and nature trail.

“The walking and bicycling path ... will transform pedestrian and cyclist activities in the urban area of our community,” said Laura Ringo, executive director of Partners for Active Living, an organization that has been working to create 32 miles of continuous trail that will allow people to ride or walk from Glendale Shoals to the east to the old Anderson Mill to the west.

“By extending the design of the Mary Black Rail Trail for three additional miles from Union Street to Country Club Road, more residents will have significantly improved opportunities for safe, convenient, and accessible recreation and physical activity. (Also,) the newly renovated Glendale bridge will be a major destination for those traveling on foot or by bicycle from downtown Spartanburg.”

Phillips said funding has been secured, and the design engineers are finalizing plans and alternatives. The next step will be to secure environmental permits.

Land along the Country Club Road corridor will be needed, and right-of-way acquisition will begin in the spring of 2019. Construction is scheduled to start in the fall of 2020.

Funding breaks down this way: $2.1 million for planning and engineering; $3 million for right-of-way acquisitions; and $6 million for construction, according to SPATS.

The project includes widening the roadway. Intersecting roads include Old Petrie Road and Wallace Avenue. It is bordered by the Country Club of Spartanburg to the north, and across the road to the south is Country Club Estates.

Among other roads connecting to Country Club Road include Bagwell Farm Road, Hilton Street, Four Mile Branch Road, Andrews Road, Wellington Road, Conner Street and Clyde Street.

While Spartanburg County is not involved in the project, Parks and Recreation Director Kevin Stiens said it fits in with the county's strategic plan.

"Trails and greenways are highly desirable amenities that the county is actively working to address," Stiens said.

First came love, then a fiddle-leaf fig and a bustling plant store

In the now-infamous summer of 2020, the Baziks’ new business had customers lining up down the block.SarahCotta Plants opened its Glendale doors that July, a bold move by its married owners, Sarah and Tadeh. Their store grew from tough soil — the summer the pandemic shuttered many small businesses — but it’s still thriving two years later. Now, standing behind the shop’s wood counter, the Baziks answer the big question: How?Tadeh thinks people needed an escape from pandemic stress.“Look...

In the now-infamous summer of 2020, the Baziks’ new business had customers lining up down the block.

SarahCotta Plants opened its Glendale doors that July, a bold move by its married owners, Sarah and Tadeh. Their store grew from tough soil — the summer the pandemic shuttered many small businesses — but it’s still thriving two years later. Now, standing behind the shop’s wood counter, the Baziks answer the big question: How?

Tadeh thinks people needed an escape from pandemic stress.

“Looking back, I can’t believe that actually happened,” he said, wearing a black T-shirt, matching with his wife. “Back then, people were so scared. There was no vaccine, you know, the fact that people would even come here was amazing.”

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Sarah said that attracting customers was never the problem. In the shop’s early months, the Baziks let in only two people at once and required masks. They’d leave every night at 10, and when they came back in the morning, customers were already waiting outside. Nurses from nearby Adventist Health, still in their scrubs, stopped by to pick out plants.

Though they had the customers, the real hurdle was the inventory, Sarah said. They scoured for plants, usually in San Diego, trying to purchase enough types to fill their shop. The plants would arrive at distribution centers and sell fresh off the truck, and either the Baziks grabbed them or another plant shop would. Even now filling inventory can be difficult, but the shop feels full.

Wedged between a hair salon and an air duct business, the Baziks manage to make a small space feel airy. It’s plant-packed, as expected, with glass vials of cuttings on one wall and a white cabinet of rare plants on the other. Then there’s Sarah and Tadeh, a lively couple toiling away in the middle of it all. There’s only one employee, who runs the counter; the Baziks manage everything else. The store closes on Mondays and Tuesdays as they shop for new plants, clean them, add them in the system and take photos. On Wednesday, they restock and reopen.

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Working together means Sarah and Tadeh are together “24 hours a day.” They wouldn’t have it any other way.

“I’ve been with him since I was 18 years old, and I’ve never been bored of him ever,” Sarah said. “All of my friends all the time are like, ‘How do you work with your husband every single day?’ I’m like, ‘It’s the best!’ I don’t want to work with anybody else. Like I can’t imagine not working with him.”

“Imagine working with your best friend,” Tadeh added.

Facebook played matchmaker back in 2010, when Sarah posted about getting a new phone and asked her friends to send their numbers. She and Tadeh had never met but he coyly sent her his number anyway. They messaged for months, even when Tadeh visited Armenia for the first time and she was still in California.

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“Instead of visiting the country, I’m sitting there at 3 in the morning on my laptop talking to her because I know she’s awake,” Tadeh said as Sarah smiled. “I fell in love with her before I even met her face to face.”

When he came back, they met in person, and years later, Tadeh proposed when visiting Sarah’s family in Armenia. Though they planned to marry at the end of 2020, they spontaneously wed on a trip to Cancun with friends in 2019 — in the nick of time before the pandemic hit.

Both Armenian, the Baziks found their fluency in the language especially handy in Glendale, which has one of the largest Armenian populations outside of Armenia itself. Sarah traces her plant passion to her grandmother’s garden in Armenia. Her grandmother would lead her through herbs and hoya plants, pointing out each type and how it grew. While her mother had a black thumb, her grandmother could grow anything.

Tadeh tested whether it ran in the family. Seven years ago, he gave Sarah her first plant: a glossy fiddle-leaf fig. It’s notoriously difficult to keep alive, but Sarah grew it into something big and beautiful. Tadeh had unknowingly started a “healthy addiction.” Their apartment evolved into a jungle, with more than 100 plants filling all the corners.

Sarah recruited not only Tadeh but all her friends into her plant frenzy, hosting potting parties and handing out plant cuttings. And while her friends encouraged them to start a store, she and Tadeh insisted it was just a hobby — until the pandemic.

As COVID-19 spurred a new era of outdoor activity, the Baziks opted for biking. While driving to buy Sarah a new bike, Tadeh noticed a “For Lease” sign — a side effect of his real estate agent eyes. They continued on and bought the bike, but something tugged on them to stop at the open space on the way home. The interior was a disaster but the Baziks weren’t fazed.

“We were just looking around, and then I’m like, how much is the rent?” Tadeh said. “And he told us and out of nowhere, I looked at Sarah and I’m like, ‘You know that thing you’ve always been talking about, about doing a plant shop? Should we do it?’”

“And then we were like … OK! We literally signed the lease that day,” Sarah said, standing in that same space (which now shows no trace of once being a disaster). “If you keep waiting and waiting, trying to find the right place, like if we planned on finding the right place …”

“You’re never gonna find the right time,” Tadeh finished.

So they went to work, Tadeh turning his real estate career into a side gig as they both devoted themselves full-time to SarahCotta Plants. (The name is a blend of terracotta, their favorite plant pots, and Sarah’s name, which Tadeh jokes sounded better than his.)

Their house is the store’s prep center. In their home greenhouse, they organize, sift and clean through what they’ve bought, label plants and snap photos for their website. Their 1-year-old son, Kylo, gets to grow up in the jungle of it all. When the Baziks bring him into the shop, he explores the terrain but doesn’t knock anything over.

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He’s a particularly peaceful toddler, which the Baziks attribute to the calm environment. “We’re raising him like one of our plants,” Tadeh laughed.

And it’s not just Kylo who is learning to be a plant person. Since opening, the Baziks have embarked on a mission to develop everyone’s green thumb. That’s why Sarah loves cuttings — even if a customer accidentally kills a plant, sometimes a piece of it can be salvaged and used to grow a new one. After all, their main goal is to make everyone a plant person, and two years after opening, they’re seeing the fruits of their efforts. The Baziks love when customers become friends and enjoy seeing them with thriving plants they bought in the store’s early days.

“I feel like plants were just a way for all of us to escape all the insanity that’s going out there,” Tadeh said of the shop’s start. “And just on like a human level, talk about something totally natural and totally nonpandemic and not about dying and not about all the negative stuff. Once you guys step in here, forget about whatever that’s going on out there.”

As some pandemic restrictions have ebbed, SarahCotta Plants still stands as a remnant of the good that came out of a turbulent time. And it persists as an escape for those having a hard day.

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Sarah calls two things “meant to be.” The first: her marriage to Tadeh. And the second: opening this plant store.

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“It’s how many people that we helped become plant people that became friends,” Sarah said. “It’s meeting new people and talking to them and becoming friends, to them coming to my son’s first birthday party. It’s those core memories that I’ll remember forever.”

SarahCotta Plants, 401 N. Verdugo Road, Suite A, Glendale. Open Wednesdays-Fridays, noon-7 p.m.; Saturdays and Sundays, noon-5 p.m. Instagram: @SarahCottaPlants. www.sarahcottaplants.com

Upstate Lowdown: When will the restored Glendale Shoals bridge open?

chris.lavender@shj.comThe bridge at Glendale Shoals is expected to be open by Aug. 1 for foot traffic once lighting is installed at the site.Built in 1928, the Glendale Bridge spans Lawson's Fork Creek and is an example of a Pratt truss-style bridge. Carolina Bridge Co. finished the bridge's restoration work in June. The 18-month project cost $1.7 million to complete and was funded with state and federal funds, along with private donations.Gail Rodgers of Spartanburg asked about the bridge in Upstate Lowdo...

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The bridge at Glendale Shoals is expected to be open by Aug. 1 for foot traffic once lighting is installed at the site.

Built in 1928, the Glendale Bridge spans Lawson's Fork Creek and is an example of a Pratt truss-style bridge. Carolina Bridge Co. finished the bridge's restoration work in June. The 18-month project cost $1.7 million to complete and was funded with state and federal funds, along with private donations.

Gail Rodgers of Spartanburg asked about the bridge in Upstate Lowdown, a Herald-Journal and GoUpstate.com feature that allows readers to ask questions and invites them to become a part of the reporting process as the newspaper tracks down answers. Rodgers' question was put on an Upstate Lowdown ballot with three other questions and won the most votes as of Friday night.

Rodgers said she noticed work had stopped for a period in late May into June and asked when the bridge was scheduled to open. She drives past the bridge site at least twice a week.

"I had been wondering about it," she said. "I am excited about it opening up soon. When it opens, I think I will be walking on it a lot."

Kevin Jones, Carolina Bridge project engineer, said a delay in the project occurred when Duke Energy changed plans on where to connect its lights at the bridge. The proposed lighting system was also upgraded from previous designs, Jones said.

"Adding the lights that were not in the original plan will take a little longer," Jones said. "The bridge should be opened by the end of the month."

The lights will stay on from dusk until dawn, Jones said. Once the lights are installed, fences on either side of the bridge will be removed and it will open for public use.

The restored bridge has lanes for foot traffic and bicyclists to cross over the dam into the Glendale Shoals Preserve on Emma Cudd Road. It was restored to its original condition.

Debris from around the bridge was removed and trusses were installed to reinforce the structure. The pedestrian walkway is about 5 feet wide, and a new wooden deck was added to the bridge's surface.

The Palmetto Conservation Foundation worked with Spartanburg County and the S.C. Department of Transportation to move the project forward in 2016.

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